Welcome all to some Wednesday wisdom.

In today's fast-paced world, where instant gratification and high expectations have become the norm, it is easy to fall into the trap of expecting too much from others and from life itself. We often set unrealistic expectations for ourselves and those around us, hoping that things will unfold exactly as we hope. However, when these expectations are not met, we are left feeling aggrieved, resentful, and even angry. It is a cycle that can be harmful to our well-being and relationships.

Robert Fisher's quote "When you learn to accept instead of expect, you will have fewer disappointments," holds a deep truth. It highlights the importance of shifting our mindset and embracing acceptance as a powerful tool for personal growth and joy. By letting go of rigid expectations and creating a mindset of acceptance, we can free ourselves from the burden of constant disappointment.

Expectations, by their very nature, are projections of how we believe things should be. We build mental pictures of the perfect outcome and affix our emotions to them. However, life rarely unfolds according to our preconceived notions. When reality falls short of our expectations, we encounter a sense of dismay that can ripple through various aspects of our lives.

Disappointment, in itself, is not an inherently negative emotion. It is a natural response to unmet expectations. However, when it lingers and turns into resentment, it becomes toxic. Bitterness can poison our minds and hearts, causing us to harbour negative feelings towards others. We get angry, blaming them for not living up to our expectations. But often, the anger we project onto others is a reflection of the anger we feel towards ourselves for setting unrealistic standards.

Fortunately, there is a way out of this destructive cycle. By learning to accept rather than expect, we can free ourselves from the burden of endless disappointment. It needs a shift in our view of life and people, a readiness to let go of the past, and mindful efforts to worry less about the future and what others think of us.

Learning to accept does not mean that we abandon our dreams and aspirations. It means that we approach them with a sense of vulnerability, allowing the journey to unfold naturally. It means finding joy in the present moment, rather than pinning our happiness on future outcomes.

Coaching has also taught me the importance of self-belief and self-compassion. Instead of always seeking validation from others, I've learned to trust my intuition and celebrate my talents. I've embraced the idea that success is not solely defined by external achievements but is also about personal fulfilment, happiness, and living in alignment with my values.

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